At least, not if you don’t want it to be.
Not even tattoos.
I think we get so caught up in what we might look like to other people, how something will impact our future, what we should hold back on to wait out for something better.
The only permanent things are deaths, drugs, and felonies. Don’t do those. The rest is honestly up to you.
Cut your hair. It will grow back. Get a tattoo. Regret it and then get it removed. Break up with him if he doesn’t make you happy. If it’s meant to be you’ll get back together, if not, you’ll find somebody better for you.
You can always go back to school if you feel like it isn’t for you right now, you can always start school even if you’re scared.
Start writing a book. You can always stop if it isn’t going the way you planned.
Eat one piece of chocolate cake. It won’t kill you.
The only things you shouldn’t do are things that become an addiction, things that ultimately change who YOU are INSIDE. Like, too much alcohol, too many relationships, too many pieces of chocolate cake. Does any of that make sense?
I guess what I’m saying is that you don’t have to be afraid to do anything. It’s okay to let go of things and it’s okay to switch your life when you need to. I know you’re terrified of losing losing people. But the people who love you, the people you can really call home (more on them next time), they’ll be there when you get back from wherever you’re going.
I was a paper doll for way too long. Dont be that way anyway. Let anyone and everyone paint you blue, purple, gray, green, and grey skies.
It is okay.